“When you focus on the problem, you lose sight of the child”

Feb 8, 2022

This episode continues my parenting “Rules of thumb” series, which comes from the In-Home Play Therapy training that we conduct through The Kid Counselor Center. “When you focus on the problem, you lose sight of the child” is an important guideline to remember when dealing with parenting moments. We’ll talk about how the “quick fix mentality” is not the best way to view solutions to parenting issues. I also discuss the following topics… negative vs positive framing, victim vs victor mentality, and focusing on the issue instead of the relationship.
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